Ang Sikretong Dapat Mong Malaman Na Di Ko Dapat Sinabi

Sa mga naghahangad na maging scholar, full man o half lang, sa mga taong stressed out na sa mga failing grades, sa mga taong ga-guhit na lang ang layo sa pagiging scholar, marahil ito na ang sagot sa iyong mga problema. Ang article na ito ay heaven-sent para sa iyo. Yes, I might bring you the latest, freshest and coolest tips that man could ever heard (and read).

Enough for the petty and unsolicited introductions. I would like to warn you for the massive and intense change of language used and would be using. Abruptly, eto na nga ang isa sa mga iyon. Bukod doon, I was about to apprise you about some epistaxis-causing words and nakakapagpadugong mga salita at talinhaga. Oh, didn't I tell you I like thesaurizing? What a word!

Finally, I was able to get back to my senses. After 2 years, naging scholar na ulit ako. I mean, full scholar. This is not brag or something. I just want to share the "darkest" secrets I did para ma-grab ng todo ang aking scholarship. Maybe, makakatulong sa'yo ito. Malay natin. Hindi lang grab kundi cling. I really do not know where to start. On what to say. On what to tell. Shoot! I am going pointless.

Do I really have the qualification to say these things? I think, not! But, may be I can express what the "eligible" wants to share. I was an achiever. Now, I turn to be a normal [loser]. Laugh at it! I barely laugh at this too. Totoo naman. I become the normal guy who pass and most often than not fail in quizzes. Normal. It's a bit overrated. Pero, come to think of it, everyone was once normal. Everyone's affected. I finally have the bearing to say my piece.

Another warning. Hindi ako mahilig magsabi na ito ang tip #1 or some of a kind. Be wary of things. You don't know I just gave two. Hindi importante ang numero. Arrangements may be incorrect. Moreover, it's the way you perceive and accept these things. Don't get back reading. If you did not take it, it is okay. It is not as important as the following tips. Kailangan mo lang hanapin.

This is what I do. It's more appropriate to say I did. Okay. Nagpakulay ako ng buhok. Yun siguro ang highlight ng pag-aaral ko. I had this premonition or belief na kung may kulay ang buhok ko beside black and some gray stuff, which are not really colors, probably magiging scholar ako. Kung ano man ang naging kulay ng buhok ko, hindi ko alam yun. Pero salamat pa rin. Kulay ng buhok is really crucial.

Pagdating naman sa pag-aaral, I make sure na 5-8 hours ang tulog ko. Konek sa pag-aaral? Forget about it! Mas importante ang pagtulog. I believe that a good sleep is far better than a good review. Aanhin mo naman ang matinding pag-rereview kung hikab ka ng hikab sa klase. Mas mabuti pa na wala kang na-aral basta pagdating sa klase mo, awake ka para maintindihan ang lahat ng sinasabi ng prof mo, whether not important or not really important.

Did you just attempt to exit your browser? Oh my?! Every detail counts. Kahit gaano kapangit ang pinagsasabi ko. Kahit gaano ka-useless ang lahat ng bagay na ito, tapusin mo lang basahin ito. I did not aim to please you. I mean to share this - whole thing not just part of it. Excerpts are not freaking allowed!

Notes are also overrated! Hindi mo naman talaga kailangan yun. Hindi mo kailangan isulat word per word ang sinasabi ng kung sinuman in front. Importante lang you know how it is done and WHY. The how part is not really important. Mas mahalaga na alam mo kung bakit. This is to know if it is logical or not. If it is not, better to scrap that off your memory. Hindi na ako nag-take notes. Pero, hindi ako nagpa-Xerox na lang basta ng notes ng kung sino. It's like sharing the sweat of others. Yuck!

Books are for libraries. They are also for the homes. Iiwan lang sila. Kung dadalhin man ay dahil may plus o dahil may homework ka na kailangang ipasa kinabukasan. Basahin mo man sila, madalang na ang maintindihan mo ng todo ang mga libro. Mas masaya pa ang makinig ka na lang sa audiobook na istorya ang isinasalaylay. They are not meant to tell you straightforward. They were made to make you buy the succeeding ones.

Television is my best friend next to my notebook. Televisions are made to steal our precious time. Do we like it? Hell, yeah! TV Networks are their accomplices. Gumagawa sila ng mga palabas na gugustuhin mo na lang manuod kaysa mag-aral. Oww. That's heavy. Kahit sabihin natin na they made something educational. Duh! Hindi mo kailangang matuto ng 1 + 1, kumanta ng kung anu-ano or whatever. Making money is their aim. Reality check.

Hindi ka man nila magawang turuan sa mga difficult subjects mo like calculus, strength, design o kung ano pa. Hindi man nila matugunan ang problema mo inside the class. They give you life's lessons na sa seryes at pelikula lang naman nangyayari. Culture ang ipinapakita nila. Culture na mixed katotohan at ang gusto nilang mangyari.

Bukod sa telebisyon, ang musika ang karamay ko sa pagtahak ang landas patungo sa institusyong inaakala kong makakatulong sa akin upang makamit ang aking mga pangarap. My ears and earphones are inseparable. I get relaxed. I get calmed. Pero, ang pinakamasaya doon ay pinapatulog nila ako. In short, I rarely hear all the songs that the music player played.

Social life is the key to success. What? Meet people! See people! Hear people. It doesn't necessarily mean night life. Kahit simpleng malling lang can be considered as social life. Ang importante may tao. You see them. Hindi yung your just on your own. I go out. I enjoy. I live.

Of course, going virtual is really cool. Facebooking is part of it. Ang facebook ang tulong sa pag-aaral. Dito ka matututong mag-butt in sa usapang hindi ka naman kasali. You make friends sa taong naglalaro rin ng laro mo. Mas malala, you persuade them to play your game. Mas nakakatawa naman na dahil sa facebook nagiging friends mo yung mga taong hindi mo kayang kausapin in person. But, the good thing is you can share your homeworks sa mga kaklase mo dahil dito. At ang pinakamahalaga you can copy their assignments!

Orgs are cool, too! Makakakilala ka ng iba pang tao bukod sa mga kaklase mo. You get to see people with different "wavelengths" as yours. May mas malala compared sa'yo. May mas tame. Marami pang iba. Pero ang bottomline you can ask questions about the professors sa mga subjects mo.

Okay. Forget about what I said. They are just for entertainment. Whether you like it or you very like it. Hindi importante ang kulay ng buhok. Hindi importante ang paraan ng pag-aaral. Hindi importante ang mga ritwal sa kung anuman. At mas lalong hindi importante ang kalalabasan.

First come, First served. Matutong magdasal. Prayer is the key. Faith is the door. God is the home. Matuto kang magdasal sa mga bagay na karapat-dapat at ang nais mong mangyari. Magdasal na sana matino ang prof na darating sa'yo. Matino means nagtuturo. Kasama na rin ang maayos na grading system - walang roleta, walang mga alay (10% or 20% lowest), walang mga ka-ek-ekan na hindi naman kailangan. At lalo na ang considerate. Sa pag-checheck ng quizzes, tests, exams, assignments at lahat [ng mga ipapasa]. Moreover, magdasal ka na sana mangyari ang will ni Lord. Bakit? Ito ang pinakaimportante sa lahat. Whatever happens, it occurred for a reason. And that reason is the best path along the way among others.

Love is sweeter the second time around. Comply. Gawin ang assignments. Pumasok on-time. Mag-seatwork at karirin ito. Mag-participate sa board works. Performance level kung perfomance level. Bibo kung bibo. Higit sa lahat ipakita mo na karapat-dapat kang pumasa at makakuha ng mataas na grade. Do it with love. Passion. Hindi porket 1 unit subject lang ay babalewalain mo na. Every activity must be done fervently. Equally distributed ang effort.

Isa, dalawa, tatlo ang tatay mong kalbo. Learn. Not just Study. Parang comprehend not just read. Syempre mas gusto mo yung pumasa ka kahit di ka natuto kaysa naman natuto ka nga pero bumagsak ka naman. Of course, ang mahal ng bayad kada units ngayon. At sayang yung pagkakadelay mo kung ganon. In the end, you'll see na ikaw yung talo. In the end, mas nanaisin mo na dumanas ka ng hirap kaysa wala kang natutunan. Learning is just part of the whole thing.

Apat dapat. Have fun! Be happy. Enjoy! Ito ang nakakatanggal ng stress at pressure ng lahat ng estudyante. Kabilang na rin ang mga guro. Stress detoxification! Ito na rin ang pinakagusto ng lahat ng tao. But, in moderation lang. No need for long explanation. You all have the definition of fun.

Save the best for last. Trust in the Lord. Trust Him that He will guide you in every way. Trust Him na mapagbibigyan Niya ang hiling mo. Na maibibigay Niya ang "the best" na plano para sa'yo. At ito na ang dapat mong tandaan. Wala ng iba.

Siyempre, nagtiwala ako. Kaya naka-scholar ako ngayon. Nagtiwala ako. Magtiwala ka rin.

Hindi ko sinasabi na kapag nagtiwala ka, magiging scholar ka o papasa ka na kaagad. Hindi ito assurance. Pero, one thing is for sure. It is the best for you. This is the thing you should know - God is the answer. And I should say it!

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